1 00:00:00,629 --> 00:00:04,099 Speaker 1: Right now I'm calling because I'm actually on my way 2 00:00:04,110 --> 00:00:09,039 Speaker 1: to get abortion pills at a clinic and I truthfully 3 00:00:09,050 --> 00:00:12,039 Speaker 1: don't know what to do. Planned Parenthood. For instance, they 4 00:00:12,050 --> 00:00:14,989 Speaker 1: say it's just cells dividing, you know, but I can't 5 00:00:15,000 --> 00:00:17,170 Speaker 1: help but feel like it is a life. I don't 6 00:00:17,180 --> 00:00:20,139 Speaker 1: want to look back and regret it. 7 00:00:22,790 --> 00:00:26,559 Speaker 2: Let's go to Alicia. I hope I'm saying it correctly 8 00:00:26,569 --> 00:00:28,870 Speaker 2: in Chicago. Good morning, Alicia. Good 9 00:00:28,879 --> 00:00:33,519 Speaker 1: morning. I, I was looking for a sign today. Um, 10 00:00:33,689 --> 00:00:34,360 Speaker 1: I 11 00:00:35,229 --> 00:00:38,369 Speaker 1: was randomly, this radio station came on and I just 12 00:00:38,380 --> 00:00:40,709 Speaker 1: started listening to it. I was actually listening to it 13 00:00:40,720 --> 00:00:44,220 Speaker 1: when it was N pr and right now I'm calling 14 00:00:44,229 --> 00:00:49,180 Speaker 1: because I'm actually on my way to get abortion pills 15 00:00:49,189 --> 00:00:52,598 Speaker 1: at a clinic and I truthfully don't know what to do. 16 00:00:53,689 --> 00:00:56,619 Speaker 1: I've just been so nervous and sick and I have 17 00:00:56,630 --> 00:00:59,959 Speaker 1: two kids at home and I just don't want to 18 00:01:00,619 --> 00:01:04,139 Speaker 1: make life any worse on them or more hard on 19 00:01:04,150 --> 00:01:08,660 Speaker 1: myself or my husband and I just 20 00:01:09,330 --> 00:01:12,419 Speaker 1: don't know what to do. I was sort of raised 21 00:01:12,430 --> 00:01:14,750 Speaker 1: in the Catholic faith, but not very 22 00:01:15,529 --> 00:01:16,339 Speaker 2: strongly. 23 00:01:17,360 --> 00:01:20,480 Speaker 1: Right. And both of my parents have passed away one 24 00:01:20,489 --> 00:01:22,750 Speaker 1: from cancer and one from suicide. 25 00:01:23,650 --> 00:01:26,449 Speaker 1: So I don't really have a support system there. 26 00:01:27,690 --> 00:01:31,410 Speaker 1: Um, I'm in my last year of school at university 27 00:01:31,419 --> 00:01:34,059 Speaker 1: and I just feel like now is really probably 28 00:01:35,319 --> 00:01:37,889 Speaker 1: one of the worst times that this could happen at 29 00:01:38,230 --> 00:01:41,000 Speaker 1: and I just don't know what to do. 30 00:01:43,239 --> 00:01:46,809 Speaker 2: Ok. The first thing I'd like to say, Alicia is 31 00:01:46,819 --> 00:01:49,300 Speaker 2: that I'm so glad that you took a moment to call. 32 00:01:50,099 --> 00:01:55,510 Speaker 2: I mean, to press pause and maybe get a second opinion. 33 00:01:56,699 --> 00:01:59,589 Speaker 2: Think it through a little bit more. That's a good thing. 34 00:01:59,599 --> 00:02:01,190 Speaker 2: I'm really glad you did that. First of all. 35 00:02:02,160 --> 00:02:04,910 Speaker 2: Now you have two kids at home. How old are 36 00:02:04,919 --> 00:02:05,529 Speaker 2: those kids? 37 00:02:06,699 --> 00:02:10,229 Speaker 1: I have a two year old and a seven year old. 38 00:02:10,479 --> 00:02:13,360 Speaker 2: Ok. So you are busy, you got your hands full, 39 00:02:13,369 --> 00:02:14,169 Speaker 2: no doubt about that. 40 00:02:15,130 --> 00:02:18,459 Speaker 2: But isn't it interesting when, as busy as you were? 41 00:02:18,770 --> 00:02:22,710 Speaker 2: And I mean, I have 11 Children. So I remember when, 42 00:02:22,720 --> 00:02:25,820 Speaker 2: when I was a young dad, how busy we were. 43 00:02:26,100 --> 00:02:28,839 Speaker 2: Lots of kids. We didn't have 11 kids all at once, 44 00:02:28,850 --> 00:02:30,320 Speaker 2: but we had a lot of kids. 45 00:02:31,179 --> 00:02:33,250 Speaker 2: But one thing that really struck me and I wonder 46 00:02:33,258 --> 00:02:36,228 Speaker 2: if you had the same experience was that as busy 47 00:02:36,240 --> 00:02:39,169 Speaker 2: and as focused as we were on the first child 48 00:02:39,179 --> 00:02:39,929 Speaker 2: as our son. 49 00:02:41,179 --> 00:02:43,750 Speaker 2: When the second child came along, 50 00:02:44,630 --> 00:02:48,740 Speaker 2: it didn't change anything. It just made it better. We 51 00:02:48,750 --> 00:02:50,919 Speaker 2: were about as busy as we had been before 52 00:02:51,830 --> 00:02:54,630 Speaker 2: and we had another little beautiful baby to love and 53 00:02:54,639 --> 00:02:55,360 Speaker 2: get to know 54 00:02:56,470 --> 00:02:59,720 Speaker 2: and what I experienced. Alicia was that it's not like 55 00:02:59,729 --> 00:03:02,639 Speaker 2: you're dividing. Let's say you've got a pie and you're 56 00:03:02,649 --> 00:03:04,119 Speaker 2: now cutting it in half. 57 00:03:04,979 --> 00:03:09,770 Speaker 2: It's like it multiplies your time, multiplies your love multiplies. 58 00:03:10,399 --> 00:03:11,130 Speaker 2: And 59 00:03:11,949 --> 00:03:14,570 Speaker 2: I wonder if you went through anything like that between 60 00:03:14,580 --> 00:03:15,918 Speaker 2: your 1st and 2nd baby. 61 00:03:16,538 --> 00:03:18,639 Speaker 2: Did you feel like with the second baby that you 62 00:03:18,649 --> 00:03:19,029 Speaker 2: were 63 00:03:19,779 --> 00:03:22,229 Speaker 2: like digging a hole for yourself or did you love 64 00:03:22,240 --> 00:03:24,299 Speaker 2: that baby? Just as much as the first one? 65 00:03:24,820 --> 00:03:27,769 Speaker 1: I did feel that way. It's just I noticed a 66 00:03:27,779 --> 00:03:32,729 Speaker 1: lot about how it changed my oldest quality of life. How, 67 00:03:32,740 --> 00:03:33,470 Speaker 1: you know, then 68 00:03:34,490 --> 00:03:36,860 Speaker 1: he was being told he had to be quiet more 69 00:03:36,869 --> 00:03:38,979 Speaker 1: and we weren't able to do as many things with 70 00:03:38,990 --> 00:03:40,460 Speaker 1: him because he, 71 00:03:41,240 --> 00:03:44,050 Speaker 1: you know, we had the baby to care for and 72 00:03:44,690 --> 00:03:47,860 Speaker 1: you know, I just saw how much it changed that 73 00:03:47,869 --> 00:03:51,259 Speaker 1: for him. And I am really worried about what that 74 00:03:51,270 --> 00:03:55,789 Speaker 1: will do for my oldest and my youngest about just 75 00:03:55,800 --> 00:03:57,179 Speaker 1: their quality of life 76 00:03:57,619 --> 00:04:02,539 Speaker 1: and their ability to not only have the things that 77 00:04:02,559 --> 00:04:05,550 Speaker 1: you know, they want or need, but also their ability 78 00:04:05,559 --> 00:04:08,679 Speaker 1: to be able to do the things that they want 79 00:04:08,690 --> 00:04:12,570 Speaker 1: to do and me having that time for them. 80 00:04:13,710 --> 00:04:15,449 Speaker 2: I understand that sentiment. 81 00:04:16,320 --> 00:04:20,510 Speaker 2: My experience is that love multiplies. It doesn't divide, it's 82 00:04:20,519 --> 00:04:23,190 Speaker 2: not parceled out in smaller and smaller groups 83 00:04:23,829 --> 00:04:25,540 Speaker 2: or smaller and smaller pieces. But 84 00:04:27,529 --> 00:04:29,178 Speaker 2: I can't help but think about 85 00:04:30,410 --> 00:04:32,940 Speaker 2: in this decision that you're making right now 86 00:04:33,730 --> 00:04:36,578 Speaker 2: that in order for those things to happen, 87 00:04:37,299 --> 00:04:38,469 Speaker 2: somebody has to die. 88 00:04:39,880 --> 00:04:40,160 Speaker 2: I mean, 89 00:04:41,000 --> 00:04:43,809 Speaker 1: I know. And that's like, the hard thing is that 90 00:04:43,820 --> 00:04:49,369 Speaker 1: every bit is so, like, opinionated, like Planned Parenthood, for instance, 91 00:04:49,380 --> 00:04:52,850 Speaker 1: they say it's just cells dividing and that, you know, 92 00:04:52,859 --> 00:04:55,940 Speaker 1: I'm really early, I'm only five weeks and they say that, 93 00:04:55,950 --> 00:04:59,040 Speaker 1: you know, it's just the beginning and, you know, but 94 00:04:59,049 --> 00:05:01,089 Speaker 1: I can't help but feel like it is a life 95 00:05:01,100 --> 00:05:01,589 Speaker 1: or that, 96 00:05:02,059 --> 00:05:04,488 Speaker 1: you know, like it isn't just like a pregnancy as 97 00:05:04,500 --> 00:05:06,209 Speaker 1: they say, you know, and 98 00:05:07,220 --> 00:05:09,820 Speaker 2: planned parenthood of course, is in the business of making 99 00:05:09,829 --> 00:05:14,140 Speaker 2: money by doing abortions. So naturally they're going to say 100 00:05:14,369 --> 00:05:16,589 Speaker 2: anything they can to keep that money going. 101 00:05:17,359 --> 00:05:21,149 Speaker 2: And that claim that they make is not true. I mean, 102 00:05:21,980 --> 00:05:24,309 Speaker 2: we're all a clump of cells, you and I are 103 00:05:24,320 --> 00:05:27,480 Speaker 2: both a clump of cells. We just look different now 104 00:05:27,488 --> 00:05:29,140 Speaker 2: than we did when we were that age. 105 00:05:29,850 --> 00:05:32,789 Speaker 2: Like you look different now than you were when you 106 00:05:32,799 --> 00:05:34,868 Speaker 2: were five years old. You look different now than you 107 00:05:34,880 --> 00:05:37,660 Speaker 2: were when you were a newborn baby, but it's still you. 108 00:05:38,510 --> 00:05:41,489 Speaker 2: So that life in you is a human being. It's 109 00:05:41,500 --> 00:05:42,399 Speaker 2: a son or daughter, 110 00:05:43,089 --> 00:05:46,339 Speaker 2: somebody whom God created God creates the soul 111 00:05:47,260 --> 00:05:50,919 Speaker 2: when the parents unite. And, but to come back to 112 00:05:50,928 --> 00:05:53,029 Speaker 2: that thought for a minute, have you spent time maybe 113 00:05:53,040 --> 00:05:56,480 Speaker 2: in prayer and thinking about is it really the right 114 00:05:56,488 --> 00:06:00,329 Speaker 2: thing to do to kill an innocent person? Which is, 115 00:06:01,000 --> 00:06:02,308 Speaker 2: you know, what abortion does 116 00:06:03,290 --> 00:06:06,429 Speaker 2: in order for my other Children to have more toys or, 117 00:06:07,089 --> 00:06:09,750 Speaker 2: or something else like that. Have you really weighed that 118 00:06:09,760 --> 00:06:10,859 Speaker 2: decision in your mind? 119 00:06:11,988 --> 00:06:15,339 Speaker 1: I have, and I have read a lot and I've 120 00:06:15,350 --> 00:06:18,779 Speaker 1: prayed a lot and I kept just asking God for 121 00:06:18,790 --> 00:06:22,859 Speaker 1: a sign for something and then, you know, the other 122 00:06:22,869 --> 00:06:26,000 Speaker 1: half of it is, is that like Jesus died for 123 00:06:26,010 --> 00:06:28,599 Speaker 1: all of our sins, we're all forgiven, you know, but 124 00:06:29,899 --> 00:06:30,909 Speaker 1: I just, 125 00:06:32,760 --> 00:06:35,678 Speaker 1: this is just the hardest decision I've ever been faced with. 126 00:06:35,690 --> 00:06:39,829 Speaker 1: You know, and I don't wanna make life any harder 127 00:06:39,839 --> 00:06:43,279 Speaker 1: on my kids or take away from their quality of 128 00:06:43,290 --> 00:06:47,309 Speaker 1: life by adding this to their place in my own. 129 00:06:48,380 --> 00:06:50,909 Speaker 2: I understand what you're saying. I don't agree with it. 130 00:06:50,920 --> 00:06:54,149 Speaker 2: But I come back to that question when you say that, 131 00:06:54,160 --> 00:06:57,359 Speaker 2: just think about what you're saying that somebody will have 132 00:06:57,369 --> 00:06:58,109 Speaker 2: to die 133 00:06:58,970 --> 00:06:59,988 Speaker 2: in order for 134 00:07:00,880 --> 00:07:04,170 Speaker 2: what you think might happen, which may or may not happen. 135 00:07:04,178 --> 00:07:07,489 Speaker 2: Your children's quality of life may very well be just fine. 136 00:07:08,670 --> 00:07:11,799 Speaker 2: But why should somebody have to die in order for 137 00:07:11,809 --> 00:07:12,559 Speaker 2: that to happen? 138 00:07:13,779 --> 00:07:17,600 Speaker 2: That's true. You know, here's another thing I was wondering 139 00:07:17,609 --> 00:07:19,809 Speaker 2: when you called me and I'm really glad you did call. 140 00:07:19,820 --> 00:07:20,589 Speaker 2: I really am. 141 00:07:21,350 --> 00:07:22,959 Speaker 2: And we have a lot of people praying for you 142 00:07:22,970 --> 00:07:26,619 Speaker 2: right now. Alicia, lots of people listening right now, or 143 00:07:27,040 --> 00:07:28,880 Speaker 2: maybe even on their knees praying for you. 144 00:07:29,980 --> 00:07:33,609 Speaker 2: But think of it this way you asked for a sign. 145 00:07:34,279 --> 00:07:36,910 Speaker 2: I don't think you would be calling if you didn't 146 00:07:36,920 --> 00:07:41,529 Speaker 2: deep down inside realize there's something really wrong with having 147 00:07:41,540 --> 00:07:42,149 Speaker 2: an abortion 148 00:07:43,049 --> 00:07:45,459 Speaker 2: and that's your conscience speaking to. 149 00:07:46,299 --> 00:07:47,470 Speaker 2: And that, that's true. 150 00:07:48,399 --> 00:07:51,170 Speaker 2: There's something really terribly wrong 151 00:07:52,440 --> 00:07:53,209 Speaker 2: with 152 00:07:53,989 --> 00:07:56,079 Speaker 2: the option of killing somebody 153 00:07:57,269 --> 00:07:59,239 Speaker 2: for really any reason at all. 154 00:07:59,989 --> 00:08:02,040 Speaker 2: But I, I think that's a sign of hope in 155 00:08:02,049 --> 00:08:04,510 Speaker 2: the middle of this situation that you're in. And that 156 00:08:04,519 --> 00:08:05,119 Speaker 2: is that 157 00:08:06,410 --> 00:08:08,529 Speaker 2: the voice of God is speaking to you through your 158 00:08:08,540 --> 00:08:09,940 Speaker 2: conscience saying, 159 00:08:11,359 --> 00:08:12,329 Speaker 2: don't do this. 160 00:08:13,279 --> 00:08:15,320 Speaker 2: And even if there are difficulties ahead and I can 161 00:08:15,329 --> 00:08:17,980 Speaker 2: understand why you're saying that you're in school. You already 162 00:08:17,989 --> 00:08:19,970 Speaker 2: have two little ones. I understand, 163 00:08:21,799 --> 00:08:26,269 Speaker 2: but nothing would be so terrible that we could say, well, 164 00:08:26,279 --> 00:08:27,450 Speaker 2: let's kill this little one 165 00:08:28,130 --> 00:08:30,309 Speaker 2: so that we can avoid it a difficult time. I'd 166 00:08:30,320 --> 00:08:32,789 Speaker 2: rather go through a difficult time than to kill one 167 00:08:32,799 --> 00:08:33,619 Speaker 2: of my own Children 168 00:08:35,890 --> 00:08:39,770 Speaker 2: a million times over. Right? And how will you feel 169 00:08:39,780 --> 00:08:40,339 Speaker 2: later 170 00:08:41,409 --> 00:08:43,799 Speaker 2: when your son or daughter asks you, mommy? Did you 171 00:08:43,809 --> 00:08:44,679 Speaker 2: ever have an abortion? 172 00:08:46,070 --> 00:08:48,559 Speaker 2: And you'd have to say, well, 173 00:08:49,780 --> 00:08:50,228 Speaker 2: yeah, 174 00:08:51,440 --> 00:08:54,400 Speaker 2: how are your kids feel about knowing that their mom, 175 00:08:54,409 --> 00:08:58,210 Speaker 2: whom they love, who loves them actually killed one of 176 00:08:58,219 --> 00:08:59,070 Speaker 2: their siblings? 177 00:09:00,460 --> 00:09:02,929 Speaker 2: That would be painful. Don't you think painful for them? 178 00:09:02,940 --> 00:09:03,869 Speaker 2: Painful for you? 179 00:09:05,669 --> 00:09:06,830 Speaker 2: That is really true. 180 00:09:09,369 --> 00:09:13,010 Speaker 2: God will give you, I'm convinced of this. God will 181 00:09:13,020 --> 00:09:16,359 Speaker 2: give you everything you need. What did Jesus say? He said, 182 00:09:16,539 --> 00:09:18,719 Speaker 2: put first the kingdom of, of heaven 183 00:09:19,840 --> 00:09:22,459 Speaker 2: and everything else will be added onto you. And the 184 00:09:22,469 --> 00:09:26,049 Speaker 2: way I interpret that is do the right thing, always 185 00:09:26,059 --> 00:09:30,429 Speaker 2: put Jesus first, always put the truth first and everything 186 00:09:30,440 --> 00:09:31,750 Speaker 2: else will fall into place 187 00:09:32,380 --> 00:09:33,349 Speaker 2: one way or the other. 188 00:09:34,130 --> 00:09:37,200 Speaker 2: But if you or I do something that's wrong 189 00:09:38,039 --> 00:09:41,950 Speaker 2: or evil, then nothing will fall into place. Everything will 190 00:09:41,960 --> 00:09:44,409 Speaker 2: be disordered from that point forward 191 00:09:46,059 --> 00:09:46,429 Speaker 2: and, 192 00:09:47,070 --> 00:09:49,280 Speaker 2: and that's true. I mean, I'm sure you've seen that 193 00:09:49,289 --> 00:09:51,650 Speaker 2: in your own life when you set your priorities the 194 00:09:51,659 --> 00:09:53,439 Speaker 2: right way and you do what's important 195 00:09:54,549 --> 00:09:56,799 Speaker 2: things just tend to work out well 196 00:09:57,909 --> 00:09:59,280 Speaker 2: and imagine yourself 197 00:10:00,669 --> 00:10:01,559 Speaker 2: a year from now, 198 00:10:02,200 --> 00:10:03,169 Speaker 2: two years from now, 199 00:10:04,280 --> 00:10:07,049 Speaker 2: looking into that face of the little baby boy or 200 00:10:07,059 --> 00:10:10,510 Speaker 2: girl that you're carrying inside you right now and just 201 00:10:10,520 --> 00:10:12,489 Speaker 2: trying to imagine what would it be like without you? 202 00:10:13,349 --> 00:10:16,218 Speaker 2: And you'll never have to wonder about that because you'll 203 00:10:16,229 --> 00:10:19,440 Speaker 2: have that baby if you make that decision to, to 204 00:10:19,710 --> 00:10:21,000 Speaker 2: give life to your child, 205 00:10:22,140 --> 00:10:24,669 Speaker 2: imagine when he or she is graduating from high school 206 00:10:25,150 --> 00:10:26,309 Speaker 2: or getting married 207 00:10:27,419 --> 00:10:30,390 Speaker 2: and you're looking with so much love 208 00:10:31,659 --> 00:10:33,710 Speaker 2: at that son or daughter of yours 209 00:10:34,539 --> 00:10:37,250 Speaker 2: and thinking of all the love and all the happiness 210 00:10:37,260 --> 00:10:40,989 Speaker 2: and all the relationships and everything else that, that God 211 00:10:41,000 --> 00:10:43,770 Speaker 2: has planned for you and for your child, your unborn child, 212 00:10:44,719 --> 00:10:46,010 Speaker 2: all of that would go away 213 00:10:47,219 --> 00:10:50,710 Speaker 2: if you were to go through with this. I hope 214 00:10:50,719 --> 00:10:52,368 Speaker 2: you won't. I really hope you won't. 215 00:10:53,880 --> 00:10:57,020 Speaker 1: I don't think I will. Thank you. I, I, like 216 00:10:57,030 --> 00:10:58,520 Speaker 1: I said, I was looking for a sign and I 217 00:10:58,530 --> 00:11:01,169 Speaker 1: don't know, I was just listening to this N PR 218 00:11:01,179 --> 00:11:04,590 Speaker 1: radio and then you came on and I wasn't expecting 219 00:11:04,599 --> 00:11:07,030 Speaker 1: that at all, to be honest because it sounded like 220 00:11:07,039 --> 00:11:11,330 Speaker 1: the radio had very liberal views to begin with. And 221 00:11:12,359 --> 00:11:15,369 Speaker 1: I guess I, I wasn't expecting to find you today. 222 00:11:15,380 --> 00:11:18,530 Speaker 1: I had never heard of your radio show or anything before. 223 00:11:19,080 --> 00:11:22,880 Speaker 2: I'm really glad you did. I'm really glad that God 224 00:11:22,890 --> 00:11:25,250 Speaker 2: had our paths crossed this way. I mean, 225 00:11:26,640 --> 00:11:28,409 Speaker 2: I just want to encourage you 226 00:11:29,140 --> 00:11:31,069 Speaker 2: to keep pressing pause. 227 00:11:31,940 --> 00:11:33,150 Speaker 2: Don't go through with this, 228 00:11:34,299 --> 00:11:34,949 Speaker 2: right? 229 00:11:35,929 --> 00:11:38,520 Speaker 2: For your sake. I would, I would feel so bad 230 00:11:38,530 --> 00:11:40,728 Speaker 2: if you were to, to do this and you'd look 231 00:11:40,739 --> 00:11:43,539 Speaker 2: back later with regret and pain. 232 00:11:44,359 --> 00:11:45,330 Speaker 2: I don't wanna 233 00:11:45,340 --> 00:11:49,699 Speaker 1: look back and regret it. And it's just, I've been 234 00:11:49,710 --> 00:11:52,950 Speaker 1: having so much anxiety about what life would be like 235 00:11:52,960 --> 00:11:55,829 Speaker 1: with this child. I mean, we've gone back and forth 236 00:11:55,840 --> 00:11:58,489 Speaker 1: so many times like to the point where Monday we 237 00:11:58,500 --> 00:12:00,929 Speaker 1: drove there and then we decided not to and then 238 00:12:00,940 --> 00:12:04,349 Speaker 1: drove back and it's not like a short drive. It 239 00:12:04,359 --> 00:12:06,969 Speaker 1: was five hours, you know. And, um, 240 00:12:07,789 --> 00:12:10,119 Speaker 1: I don't know, I woke up this morning just feeling 241 00:12:10,130 --> 00:12:14,719 Speaker 1: so anxious and so anxiety ridden about everything. 242 00:12:15,900 --> 00:12:18,619 Speaker 1: But I guess in those moments, I, you know, didn't 243 00:12:18,630 --> 00:12:21,049 Speaker 1: think to just pray that everything would work out and 244 00:12:21,059 --> 00:12:23,619 Speaker 1: that everything would be fine and that's really all we 245 00:12:23,630 --> 00:12:27,000 Speaker 1: can do. You know, I always remember this quote from 246 00:12:27,239 --> 00:12:30,340 Speaker 1: when I was little like faith, like a mustard seed. 247 00:12:30,349 --> 00:12:33,440 Speaker 1: Like if you had faith, the size of a mustard seed, 248 00:12:33,869 --> 00:12:35,719 Speaker 1: that things would be ok. 249 00:12:36,979 --> 00:12:39,549 Speaker 2: Absolutely correct. I couldn't agree more. 250 00:12:40,309 --> 00:12:44,000 Speaker 2: And Jesus says, you know, why worry about tomorrow. 251 00:12:44,799 --> 00:12:47,369 Speaker 2: You know this, how in the gospels, he says, 252 00:12:48,090 --> 00:12:52,099 Speaker 2: look at the sparrows, they fly around and God 253 00:12:52,770 --> 00:12:55,219 Speaker 2: make sure that they have food to eat or the 254 00:12:55,229 --> 00:12:58,549 Speaker 2: lilies of the fields and how they're so beautiful, but 255 00:12:58,559 --> 00:13:00,619 Speaker 2: they don't spin, they don't make clothes for themselves. They 256 00:13:00,630 --> 00:13:04,619 Speaker 2: just have their own natural beauty. And he says these things, 257 00:13:04,630 --> 00:13:07,108 Speaker 2: God takes care of, but how much more important are 258 00:13:07,119 --> 00:13:12,159 Speaker 2: you than sparrows? You're far more important and, and God 259 00:13:12,169 --> 00:13:13,760 Speaker 2: loves you and He wants you to be happy 260 00:13:14,479 --> 00:13:16,700 Speaker 2: and look, he's blessed you with new life. Even though 261 00:13:16,710 --> 00:13:19,619 Speaker 2: it's a difficult situation. There's a blessing here in the 262 00:13:19,630 --> 00:13:20,770 Speaker 2: middle of all of this 263 00:13:22,150 --> 00:13:24,159 Speaker 2: and an abortion would be to just 264 00:13:25,630 --> 00:13:27,460 Speaker 2: flush that blessing down the toilet, 265 00:13:28,729 --> 00:13:30,500 Speaker 2: right? You know, 266 00:13:31,559 --> 00:13:35,289 Speaker 2: there's a women's center in your general area. It's in Aurora. 267 00:13:35,530 --> 00:13:38,150 Speaker 2: I don't know how close you are to Aurora. It's 268 00:13:38,159 --> 00:13:39,570 Speaker 2: uh a bit west of the city, 269 00:13:40,520 --> 00:13:42,359 Speaker 2: but I can give you their phone number if you 270 00:13:42,369 --> 00:13:46,250 Speaker 2: have a pen handy. They can give you some count. Ok. 271 00:13:46,489 --> 00:13:51,770 Speaker 2: So it's called Water Leaf, like water and Leaf Leaf 272 00:13:52,469 --> 00:13:54,959 Speaker 2: Women's Center and it's 630 273 00:13:55,739 --> 00:13:57,070 Speaker 2: 701 274 00:13:58,280 --> 00:14:00,108 Speaker 2: 6270 275 00:14:01,200 --> 00:14:09,090 Speaker 2: 6270. Right. I'll repeat it. 6307016270. 276 00:14:10,320 --> 00:14:10,849 Speaker 2: Ok. 277 00:14:11,840 --> 00:14:15,450 Speaker 2: You know, they're prepared to give you advice and good counsel. And, 278 00:14:16,150 --> 00:14:18,559 Speaker 2: um, you know, another thing I would recommend while I'm 279 00:14:18,570 --> 00:14:21,099 Speaker 2: thinking about it is that maybe it's a little too 280 00:14:21,109 --> 00:14:23,049 Speaker 2: soon right now at five weeks. But in a few 281 00:14:23,059 --> 00:14:26,359 Speaker 2: more weeks, several more weeks, you can go in and 282 00:14:26,369 --> 00:14:28,500 Speaker 2: see what your baby looks like with an ultrasound. 283 00:14:29,150 --> 00:14:31,719 Speaker 2: And many of these centers have a 3d ultrasound where 284 00:14:31,729 --> 00:14:32,479 Speaker 2: you can see 285 00:14:33,450 --> 00:14:35,299 Speaker 2: three dimensional. It's really amazing 286 00:14:36,190 --> 00:14:38,520 Speaker 2: and you'll see that little son or daughter of yours. 287 00:14:39,390 --> 00:14:40,440 Speaker 2: Wouldn't that be amazing? Right? 288 00:14:41,530 --> 00:14:45,059 Speaker 1: Yes. No. Thank you so much. I really, I really 289 00:14:45,070 --> 00:14:46,380 Speaker 1: needed this. Thank you. 290 00:14:46,969 --> 00:14:50,000 Speaker 2: You're welcome. I, I promise you, Alicia, I will pray 291 00:14:50,010 --> 00:14:53,919 Speaker 2: for you starting right now and I won't stop. And 292 00:14:53,929 --> 00:14:55,989 Speaker 2: I'm gonna ask everybody listening right now to do the 293 00:14:56,000 --> 00:14:56,539 Speaker 2: same thing. 294 00:14:57,260 --> 00:14:58,219 Speaker 2: Pray, pray, pray. 295 00:14:58,400 --> 00:15:00,929 Speaker 1: Thank you so much. I really needed this today. You 296 00:15:00,940 --> 00:15:03,409 Speaker 1: really changed my heart and changed my mind and gave 297 00:15:03,419 --> 00:15:06,030 Speaker 1: me what I needed to hear. 298 00:15:06,500 --> 00:15:11,010 Speaker 2: Thanks be to God. Thank you. If you are so 299 00:15:11,020 --> 00:15:13,380 Speaker 2: inclined Alicia and you want to get back in touch 300 00:15:13,390 --> 00:15:16,229 Speaker 2: down the road, maybe even send me a picture of 301 00:15:16,239 --> 00:15:18,950 Speaker 2: your beautiful baby boy or girl. When the time comes, 302 00:15:18,960 --> 00:15:20,229 Speaker 2: I would be so grateful. 303 00:15:21,289 --> 00:15:25,059 Speaker 1: No, absolutely. I'll definitely, I'll definitely do that. I'll find 304 00:15:25,070 --> 00:15:27,159 Speaker 1: your email and do that. 305 00:15:27,809 --> 00:15:29,780 Speaker 2: You got it. Well, if you stay on the line, 306 00:15:29,789 --> 00:15:32,090 Speaker 2: uh Young Thomas will pick up and he'll give you my, 307 00:15:32,099 --> 00:15:35,140 Speaker 2: my personal email. Feel free to use it any time. 308 00:15:36,030 --> 00:15:37,760 Speaker 2: Ok. God bless you. 309 00:15:38,630 --> 00:15:40,479 Speaker 2: God bless you. Bye bye.